8/03/2008
7/24/2008
ALWAYS MAKE TIME TO PAMPER YOURSELF!
I imagine you can tell me at length about how tired your feet and legs get after your busy day. When is the last time you got to treat yourself to a day at the spa? Even if you had the time, it’s not too often you can afford the $100 cost of a simple, relaxing, foot soak.
Doesn’t that sound nice? Relaxing feet soak at a spa. So I put together this simple recipe so you can have that soothing soak with ingredients you probably already have at home, and can whip up immediately.
Step 1. Create this wonderful foaming honey foot bath at home.
Here’s what you need:
1 tablespoon Honey
1 tablespoon Liquid Soap (I used dish soap)
1 teaspoon Vanilla Extract
2 tablespoons Sweet Almond Oil
The almond oil was the only things that sounded like it was tough to find, but my hubby and I found it at the chain drugstore at the corner of our street. Just take a look in the beauty/cosmetic aisle.
Mix all these ingredients together in a bowl and its ready for your foot bath. Note: If you want to make this stuff in a large quantity to save for later, you can bump up all the ingredients to something like this:
½ cup Honey
½ cup Liquid Soap (I used dish soap)
1 tablespoon Vanilla Extract
1 cup Sweet Almond Oil
Now you can save this in a bottle and save some time for next time.
Step 2. Find yourself a foot bath
These days you can get a fancy, space-age, foot bath for about $20. They promise they do all sorts of things like vibration, bubbles, and heat. I haven’t tried one myself, but for $20 that probably isn’t a bad experiment.
Step 3. Fill up your foot bath
Put your mixed up mixture from Step 1 into your foot bath and fill with warm water.
Please be real careful with the water temperature. Do this by triple checking the temperature of the water with your hands when it’s done. And if you are doing this for a spouse make sure you understand their taste in temperature.
Step 4. Soak for 10 minutes
The soap is obviously cleaning all sorts of impurities from your feet. I can’t even explain how many things the honey is doing. Here is a short list:
1) Apparently honey forms hydrogen peroxide which is a great anti bacterial agent. So there is goes cleansing your feet some more.
2) Honey contains antioxidants. Health news constantly revolves around us getting more antioxidants. So without me getting all biologists on us, I’ll just confirm that getting more antioxidants on our skin and in our diet is really super great!
3) Honey is also terrific humectants. That means it makes a great moisturizer.
Live passionately... what else have you got to do!
Certified Life for Women
http://christine-livepassionately.blogspot.com/
7/21/2008
Creative Handcrafted Jewelry by Total Delights
Diane and Debbie are the perfect creative partners! Their handcrafted Jewelry creations are made with Gemstones, Swarovski Crystals, freshwater pearls, Handmade Lampworks, and Sterling Silver.
Diane is a mother of four and has three grandchildren. Her first love of fashion was with hair, she is a licensed hairdresser. She has always loved to do crafts and just loves colors. Diane started creating jewelry when she took a beautiful necklace that her mother had that was made of Swarovski crystals. A few years ago she took it apart and made bracelets for girls in the family adding their own Swarovski birthstone colors. She gave them a picture of mom wearing the necklace. This sealed her love for jewelry.

Debbie is a mother of six. She has always had a very great eye for color and style and loves drawing.
Debbie and Diane have very different tastes and styles this is reflected in their creations. They both love to create something beautiful, that when a woman wears it she feels good.
Visit Total Delights to view their beautiful creations!Read their beading blog articles at http://totaldelights.wordpress.com/
Lady Lynn
[jewelry, sterling, silver]
7/20/2008
Fabulous Find

On our recent buying trip we discovered a fabulous line of Designer Inspired Fashion Jewelry.
This sensational necklace and earring set is exquisite and you can find it at Lady Lynn's sister boutique Lady Lynn's Gift Boutique

Visit our website Lady Lynn's Boutique
[jewelry, designer inspired, jewelry sets]
7/19/2008
Fat Free Sweet Gifts
BON BON ART NECKLACES
"Wear Something Sweet"
Icing on the Cake Boutique offers a wide variety of chic and cheap, unique, stylish and trendy Bridal, Wedding, Bachelorette, Baby, Birthday Gifts and Party Favors. Free personalization is offered on any item! All gifts are under $20 and all party favors are under $3.50 each!
Each item is handpainted and handmade. Icing on the Cake Boutique has free Bridal and Baby gift registries that offer great benefits with unique products not found in stores! Best of all, a portion of every single order is donated to the Labrador Retriever Rescue of Cincinnati.
Their brand new inexpensive chic jewelry line Bon Bon Art Necklaces are
made of sterling silver and each one is handcreated with a choice of up
to 32 different modern designs. They come packaged in a mini pink
octagon box topped with a tiny faux diamond ready for gift giving. "Wear
something sweet"
Find this necklace and a wide array of delectable gifts at Icing on the Cake Boutique.
[Icing on the Cake Boutique]
7/17/2008
Full Size at Sample Sale Prices on FuglyLab.com!
In addition to building my Good Girl Gone Shopping clientele, I am also the executive editor of Beauty Chat. So, I am always on the lookout for fabulous women to interview.
Fortunately, I had the chance to ask Onamia Chun -- the senior VP of Fugly Lab -- some insightful questions (while telling her about my love for the grapefruit-scented soy skincare products on her site.)
Stay tuned on Chic Things Galleria! I will be bringing a cute lip gloss giveaway very soon. Until then, be sure to enter the Fugly Lab $25 gift certificate giveaway on Beauty Chat.
Good Girl Gone Shopping
http://www.diaryofapersonalshopper.blogspot.com/
HOW TO BE CLASSY

Being classy is not about being stuck up; it is about having style and taking care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them. It is also about being confident in yourself. This article will teach you how to move through life with class and ease.
Steps
1. Choose your battles; choose your friends. Few battles are truly worth fighting. Stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves (mentally disabled, animals, children, etc). Be wary of those who appear to enjoy bickering. If someone is rude to you, either ignore them completely (recommended) or, once you have completely calmed down and are thinking clearly, explain how you perceived their actions and work towards a resolution. Never stoop to their level, and do not be hasty. Surround yourself with positive, polite people who encourage and live your classy, intelligent lifestyle.
2. Choose your words. The classy individual listens more than he or she speaks. Having a strong vocabulary is important, but do not use a word unless you are certain of its meaning. Use words to express yourself lucidly. Importantly, do not correct others when they use improper grammar. Differences in background, family life, and education cause people to speak differently, and often people use slang for effect. More than this, it is irritating and degrading to be corrected by a know-it-all. Do not insult, gossip, or slander. When necessary, voice your opinions appropriately and constructively. This encourages your audience to listen carefully when you speak.
3. Do not be a doormat. You must be courteous, but do not bend over backwards to please others. If you do, you may find yourself being taken advantage of in the future. Limit your time and availability and draw boundaries with others so that they are aware of your limits.
4. Break the stereotype shackles. More often than not, using labels in any way, whether to identify yourself or others, shows a lack of creativity, lethargic social skills, and a lack of careful observation. Give everyone respect and the benefit of the doubt.
5. Be assertive. Avoid passive-aggressive thinking; this is likely to trip you up eventually. Assertiveness demonstrates maturity, thoughtfulness, and confidence. Class requires balance, and assertiveness is a prime example of this concept.
6. Make sure your clothes fit well and that you are well groomed. Excellent presentation is half of the battle. Wear clothing and accessories which flatter your body and never wear anything you feel uncomfortable in. It is important to remember that modesty is key in earning the respect of others. A bit of cleavage may be fashionable, but true gentlemen will appreciate modesty more than exposure.
7. Avoid getting caught up in trends. There is nothing wrong with enjoying fashion or buying clothing you find attractive, but it is important to stay in control. Do not become a slave to fashion, or you may be regarded as foolish, "high maintenance", and/or shallow. The clothing you wear should enhance your personality, not create or alter it. This advice can be applied to many aspects of life in which you may feel pressured to "fit in."
8. Avoid desperate behavior like the plague This is the kiss of death for the classy person. Only desperate times call for desperate measures. Take a deep breath, be strong, and move through the situation with elegance and grace. You will be the victor for it, no matter the outcome.
9. Seek wisdom. As difficult as it can be to heed the advice of those more experienced than yourself, it is a necessary step at times. No matter your age or ability, allow yourself to learn from the mistakes and victories of those older or more experienced than you. You will win their favor and be available to pass on your own wisdom or advice.
10. Be open to personal development. Do not berate yourself, but be receptive to constructive change. In our world, change is inevitable. Be a positive and flexible part of it and show others the way as well. Face life rather than burying your head in the sand and others will know instinctively that you are someone whose opinion counts.
11. Carefully consider tattoos and piercings. Let's face it: it is easy to judge by appearance. Therefore, take careful consideration when deciding if it is a good idea for you to get visible tattoos or body piercings. Even though a person’s outward appearance does not automatically show his or her inner qualities, appearances can reflect how a person is willing to be perceived by the world. Job opportunities may be limited by such an expression. Also keep in mind that although tattoos and piercings are expressions of individuality, they can be permanent or difficult (even costly) to remove. If you are in doubt about how a tattoo or piercing will impact you in the future, find another way to express yourself.
12. Be knowledgeable and aware. It is wise to become politically, culturally, and religiously aware. Even the most basic knowledge can save a person from embarrassment and awkwardness. If you know in advance that you will be spending time with someone of an unfamiliar background, it is a good idea to do more in-depth research to avoid embarrassing faux pas.
author: www.wikihow.com/
Feel Love, Joyous and Abundance

http://christine-livepassionately.blogspot.com/
[behavior,classy,awareness]
7/14/2008
Jewelry Interview Michelle Grady Designer

How did you become involved in the jewelry business?

Can you briefly summarize your style or inspiration?
What is your greatest business challenge?
What makes your jewelry different from other designers?
How do you market your jewelry?
What advise would you offer someone who is interested in starting his or her own jewelry business?
What is your earliest memory involving jewelry?Did you have an early interest in design and fashion?
Where do you see business 5 years from now?
Do you work alone?
Were you creative as a child?
Website http://www.michelegrady.com to purchase jewelry and find out about Michelle's classes) and there are also a few articles about Michelle on her site on her press page. Michelle also will be featured in an upcoming book on women and creativity (not sure of the release date or title as of yet. The book is still in the early stages).
Pin Up Lip Balms

Mocha flavored lip balm from Pin Up Balms. As seen in InStyle Magazine!
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[beauty][lips]
7/13/2008
Great Find

Ogle
Care Instructions: hand wash cold, dry with low heat.
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[hoodie]
7/12/2008
Great Find

Sheer, loose, shimmering powders for eyes, cheeks and lips. Magically, these colorful little gems shimmer at just the right moment to add extra pizzazz to your look. Use them wet or dry.
Tips and tricks: Use a brush wet with water to paint show-offs! on eye lids... it leaves a solid, metallic-like finish. Fingers work well for application too! Sale price $12.00
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"Choice" Determines Destiny
Choice
Choice is having the opportunity to select or choose an alternative. The interesting point about "choice" is that the action is a conscious decision. And, if you don't take any action, you have chosen. You have simply made the "choice" not to act.
Throughout a lifetime, we make countless choices. Choices can be easy like deciding where to go on vacation next year. Some choices are complex with ramifications that impact the outcome of our life. A marriage, a job change, a move, are all examples of major choices in a life.
I thought you would appreciate several of the quotations highlighted below. Each of these individuals have made choices. It would seem they can share their experience by imparting a few words of wisdom.
"Some people regard discipline as a chore. For me, it is a kind of order that sets me free to fly."
Julie Andrews
"You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when. You can decide how you're going to live now."
Joan Baez
"The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice."
George Eliot
"If you play it safe in life you've decided that you don't want to grow anymore."
Shirley Hufstedler
"Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can't build on it; it is good only for wallowing in."
Katherine Mansfield
Live Passionately, what else do you have to do!
7/11/2008
DEFINING DIVA'S
Welcome Sista’s
After 7 months… I present to you the unveiling of my adventure.
Welcome to my new online store! Thanks to CafePress.com, I am now selling a number of products from my DEFINING DIVA© collection
This line was created for ALL 'GIRLFRIENDS' ...It's all about our Defining Moments in our lives.
CELEBRATE YOUR GREATNESS!
Please feel free to browse my store and buy anything you like!
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and
visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage,
about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood,
the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned
a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to
the bottom of her glass.
"They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you
love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may
have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with
them now and then; do things with them. "Remember that 'Sisters' means
ALL the women... your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other
women relatives too. "You'll need other women. Women always do."
What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just
gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a
married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the
family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and
made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after
another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew
what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and
their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've
learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT....
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are
between
you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by
yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering
you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf,
and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or
come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters,
sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and
extended family, all bless our life!
The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the
incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we
would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still.
CHEERS!
http://www.cafepress.com/girltimegifts
7/09/2008
7/08/2008
Make A Shopping List
YOU'LL FLIP OVER THIS SALE
ICED COUTURE'S ANNUAL FLIP FLOP SALE
100% Brazilian Rubber 1 1/2" Wedge Flip Flops blinged in Genuine Swarovski Crystals! These are like jewelry for your feet! Treat yourself to the ultimate "celebrity" luxury for half the price! PLUS, we are offering your choice of pattern for FREE! A $20 value!
GET YOURS TODAY IN TIME FOR SUMMER!
Black flop with Cleopatra pattern in Rose and Crystal shown! Visit Iced Couture.
7/07/2008
Artful Creations

Can you tell us a little about your background?
Back in the 90’s I first started out in art, as a porcelain artist. I would hand sculpt porcelain bowls and vases, in a very free form way and adorn them with 3 dimensional porcelain flowers as well. I really enjoyed this art form but I didn’t love it, love it, in other words, I don’t really think it was for me. I started taking art/painting lessons in 2000 and found out very quickly that this was my interest or "calling" in life.
How did you become involved in your business?
I’ve changed and grown through the years of selling my work, as has my artwork and website. I got a brand new website this year as well as a brand new blog to go along with it, to more suit my current needs and to fit what my art is about at this time in my life. I’ve totally changed directions with my art this year and it is a really good feeling that I think over the long run, will continue to be a positive change for me.
Can you briefly summarize your style or inspiration?
When you look at my work, you’ll see that I paint a lot of floral subjects. I use my garden as well as the gardens that I visit to fuel my inspiration to paint. Wherever I go, I bring a camera if I feel there will be any good garden photos to be taken. I store these photos so that year round, I have access to them and they can serve as my source of inspiration or ideas for paintings.
What is the most satisfying part of your business?
There are really two answers to this question for me…….First I find it very satisfying to be able to paint subjects that I love so much. I also love constantly mixing it up and working in different media, on many different surfaces etc. I’ve painted in watercolor, acrylic and I’ve done some work in oils as well. I think I love experimenting with the surfaces, to see what I like painting on and what I don’t. There is so much available to us as artists today, that I try to sample a lot of different ways of doing things. I think it keeps my work fresh and fun for me to create.
Second, I love working with customers to give them what they want. I’ve done a lot of custom work for many people over the years and have really enjoyed it. Making people happy and seeing an idea that they have envisioned come to life, is very rewarding.
What is your greatest business challenge?
Trying to always go down new avenues of selling my work, so I can make money, while still enjoying what I do. If you lose the enjoyment for what you do, why do it at all?? This is something I’ve struggled with before and the end result is, if I want to keep painting, I have to change what I’m doing so that I’m happy with it and happy creating it. Hence the reason for a new website this year, time for some very positive changes for me.
What advise would you offer someone who is interested in starting his or her own business?
My biggest advice would be : you have to be proactive in your own success. Don’t sit around waiting for things to happen and get mad when they don’t. If you have a question, ask. If you need help, ask. Never be afraid to chart out new opportunities for yourself, if you don’t, no one else will. A very wise friend of mine always says: " If you don’t ask, the answer is always no." I think that is an important one to live by.
What is your earliest memory involving your design work?
Not sure I have one. At least I cannot think of it at this moment.
Did you have an early interest in design and art?
No, in fact, I came to art as an adult. Sadly, there were never any art courses offered at my high school.
Where do you see business 5 years from now?
I recently had some of my work accepted in an upcoming book. I’m very excited about this and my long term goals over the next years will be to find more publications that might want to feature my work.
Do you work alone?
I paint alone but my husband Chris does so much for my business that it is practically just as much his as it is mine. He’s done so many things over the years, he is my webmaster, he sprays pieces, cuts wood, makes frames, packages and ships and the list could go on and on.
Were you creative as a child?
Do crayons count??
Please visit Ruth's websites & blog:
http://www.artfulcreations.biz/
http://www.artfulcreations.etsy.com/
http://www.artful-creations.blogspot.com/
7/06/2008
Shop These Heels






Heels Only Girls!
If a heel is your passion and you cannot leave the house without the perfect pair of heels, here are some great suggestions. Let your shoes show your flair for fashion. Great brands available at jbandme.com. Brands such as Madeline, Seychelles, Palladium, and Lacoste. Free Ground Shipping on orders over $75
7/05/2008
Look What I Found!
I spent most of the day cleaning and cooking. After I ran upstairs to get dressed I decided to light a new candle I bought from Carlee Kaufman owner of
Kaufman’s Kommon Scents

Wow!
The entire house was filled with the fantastic aroma of Raspberry Cream!
That one little candle covered 3000 sq ft of this remarkable scent!
Please visit her website Kaufman’s Kommon Scents.

[soy candle, home fragrance]
7/04/2008
How to Manage Time and Set Priorities

5 How to Manage Time and Set Priorities
Key Point
Good time management means defining priorities and scheduling activities.
What Are the 3 Rules for Effective Time Management?
1. Don't create impossible situations.
2. Define priorities.
3. Avoid distractions and lack of focus.
Don't Create Impossible Situations.
Don't get trapped into doing too much. Don't try to work full time and take a full load. Don't take too many lab classes. Use time to create success, not failure. Be realistic about school. For most classes, plan to study 2 hours for every 1 hour of class.
Make time your friend not your enemy.
Identify your first priority classes and do whatever it takes to succeed. Drop second priority classes or reduce work hours if necessary.
Define Your Priorities Using the 3-List Method.
Plan your work,then work your plan
All time management begins with planning. Use lists to set priorities, plan activities and measure progress. One approach is the 3-list method.
List #1 - The weekly calendar.
Create a weekly calendar. Make it your basic time budgeting guide. List your courses, work, study time, recreation, meals, TV, relaxation, etc.
Plan to study first priority classes when you work best. Be flexible, adapt your schedule to changing needs. Keep your schedule handy and refer to it often. If it doesn't work, change it.
List #2 - The daily "Things to Do".
Write down all the things that you want to do today. Note homework due or tests or subjects you want to emphasize. Include shopping and personal calls, etc.
This list is a reminder. Use it to set daily priorities and to reduce decision-making and worry. If time is tight, move items to your long-term list.
Rewrite this list each morning. Use visualization to help you focus on what to do. This list is also a measure of your day-to-day success. Check off items as you finish them and praise yourself for each accomplishment.
List #3 - Goals and other things.
This can be one or two lists, a monthly list and or a long-term list. Put down your goals and things you have to do. What do you want to accomplish over the next month or year? What do you need to buy?
Use this list to keep track of all your commitments. If you're worried about something, put it on this list. The purpose of this list is to develop long-term goals and to free your mind to concentrate on today.
THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND:
Avoid Distractions and Lack of Focus.
Time is precious. Yet many people waste time by getting stuck in one or more of the following habits.
Procrastination - putting off important jobs.
Crises management - being overwhelmed by the current crisis. No time for routine matters.
Switching and floundering - lack of concentration and focus on one job.
Television, telephones and friends - these are all ways of avoiding work.
Emotional blocks - boredom, daydreaming, stress, guilt, anger and frustration reduce concentration.
Sickness - getting sick and blowing your schedule.
In all of these cases, the first step is to recognize the problem and resolve to improve. Use priority lists to focus attention. Try positive self-talk. To avoid distractions, find a quiet place to study, the library or a study hall. Get an answering machine.
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7/03/2008
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Wednesday Shop This Outfit
7/01/2008
Delightful Beauty

[Topaz, Iolite, Dragonfly, Jewelry]
Jealousy Jewels
Introducing Tracy Cox owner of Jealousy Jewels "Everyone is Staring at What You're Wearing!" Can you tell us a little about your background?I have been crafting for as long as I could remember... As a child I was a member of the local 4H Club and always took the crafts class, which my grandmother taught! Crafting runs in my blood! As I grew up, I continued to take arts & crafts and sewing classes throughout junior high and high school. As an adult, I still love crafts of all sorts, but my favorites are scrap-booking and designing Jewelry, of course! On the business side of things, I have my Bachelors degree in business management and marketing and have worked in the corporate world for over 10 years. I am currently trying to make a break away from the corporate world and dive into what I really love, my jewelry!
How did you become involved in the jewelry business?I was turned on to designing jewelry, when I volunteered to help a friend’s mother make jewelry for her daughters wedding. I absolutely loved it, and haven’t stopped since! I always received a lot of compliments on my jewelry from friends and even strangers, people were always asking where I “bought” my jewelry, so I decided to sell it!
Can you briefly summarize your style or inspiration?I consider my jewelry to be very elegant, yet playful at the same time. I believe that my collections offer something for every style and personality. I get my inspiration from many aspects of my life and the fashion world! The serene landscapes that surround me, living in California and the playfulness of my children are often an inspiration! I also like to pay close attention to the fashion world and take what fits my style!
What is the most satisfying part of your business?Knowing that people are choosing my product and wearing it as part of their self expression! I love knowing that my product makes others feel food about they way the look and feel!
What is your greatest business challenge?Growing my business to the extent that I would like has been somewhat of a challenge. Finding new customers, especially in the current economic state hasn’t always been easy! Another challenge is time management; it’s not always easy to find the time it takes to run my business, network, make new designs, and still have time for my family and friends, and pay the bills! :o)
What makes your jewelry different from other designers?All of my pieces are limited edition or one-of-a kind, which makes them very unique. What you find at Jealousy Jewels you will not find anywhere else!
How do you market your jewelry?I try to promote my work, whenever I can! I purchase banner ads on websites that I feel fit with the style and personality of my work, and I network every chance I get! I have recently joined the online networking community and it has been great! I also love to do interviews about my work/shop; it gives me a chance to not only share some of my work by also give an insight to the creative spirit behind it. I also like to participate in giveaways, this gives me a chance to give back and get my name and product out there.
What advice would you offer someone who is interested in starting his or her own jewelry business?Dream big, but make sure that you have a solid plan and educate yourself on the business process and how to write a business plan. I feel that it’s also extremely important to know your product and your target market. There are a lot of great designers out there and the competition is steep, knowing your product and finding a niche is essential to a successful business!
What is your earliest memory involving jewelry?When I was a little girl I received pair of very small, pearl earrings as a gift for my first communion. I thought that they were so elegant and that I was so grown up when I wore them. I wore them every day!
Did you have an early interest in design and fashion?As a child I would spend hours dressing and redressing my dolls for their fashion shows! I even made some of their outfits by hand using safety pins and old pieces of material that my grandmother would give me.
Where do you see business 5 years from now?In five years I hope that my jewelry will be found in fine boutiques throughout California and the United States and that I will no longer have to spend my days marketing and finding new business, but that it will find me! I hope to have my name “Out There” and for people to know who Jealousy Jewels is and to love my product! :o) I would love to be able to spend more time on my designs and my customers and less time on the business side of things!
Do you work alone?Yes, at this point I am a lone soldier! But I hope to be able to grow my business and to expand to a couple more people some day! But I’d like to always keep it small and personal.
Were you creative as a child?Yes, as I was always involved with arts & crafts and play-dough has always been a favorite of mine!
Jealousy Jewels will be featured in upcoming Modish.com
[Jealousy Jewels, Interview, jewelry, giveaway]
6/30/2008
Ten Rules to Live and Love By
1. Seeing your partner through the lens of love rather than fear automatically elevates the relationship to a higher plane. When you can get quiet and note when you are projecting fear, you can make the adjustment to see through a different filter. So often we feel indignant or incensed, but upon closer inspection we will find that we are really afraid. Once we assume our partner's core goodness rather than focusing on their "guilt," they will be more free to show us their best, which accelerates the process of shifting our perspective from one of blame and anxiety to one of acceptance and peace.2. Being willing to forgive yourself and your partner, and to make amends when necessary is an ongoing process of cleanup. We all make mistakes; it's human. But when we hold fast to a grudge it eats away at our sense of peace and serenity. If you aren't willing to forgive, you might ask yourself what habit of ego you're attached to. Do you want to continue life with unresolved issues hanging over you?
When we take a stand and refuse to let go of something, we can always find evidence to justify it. Or we can try to make peace. Instead of blaming or making excuses, we can clean things up and move forward. This is not an excuse for staying in a dysfunctional situation, but an opportunity to see innocence. Once we do that, we gain—or give—freedom to move out of a "stuck" place.
3. Relaxing when times get tough; assuming that "this too shall pass" allows you to roll with the punches. If you know things will inevitably arise to challenge you, you can be more detached when they do. Problems become worse when we dig in our heels and try to force a solution. By relaxing into whatever struggle arises, we remain flexible and open to inspiration and insight.
Even if you have a hard time letting go, you can at least observe yourself taking things very seriously, which in itself helps to detach you from the experience of anxiety. Whatever is happening now won't be happening a year from now, so just keep breathing through the situation and see if you can take things a little less seriously.
4. Seeing in the dynamic of the relationship the reflection of what you need to learn helps bring you back to what is important. Sometimes we get lost in the chatter of day-to-day patterns and lose sight of the soul's mandate to bring us closer to realizing our Oneness. The best way to see where we need to work on things is to observe who we are and what we do within the context of a relationship. Any time you recognize your impulse to create distance rather than intimacy, you can make the adjustment and get back on track.
This relationship, as with all relationships, is part of a curriculum to evolve into our highest potential. We come to know ourselves by how we interact with our partner, and by so doing we come to know Spirit.
5. When you don't know how to handle a problem, pray and meditate, surrendering the decisions.
Praying and meditating aligns your limited energy with that which is all-powerful. Of course we don’t have all the answers, but by consigning our limitations to our Higher Power, our burden is lifted. We need to be accountable for our words and actions and be willing to work through where we are stuck. We need to stay present and forgive. Beyond that, our creative power is fueled by Spirit. By praying, we ask for help and guidance; by meditating we clear our minds so that the answer will become apparent. By moving aside, we create an opening for God to work miracles in ways we could never imagine.
6. Honoring your partner's path and allow them the space to find their own way sends a clear message of respect. People need to work things out in their own manner and in their own time. If you try to help where help is not requested, you are signaling your lack of belief in your partner. If you back off and assume someone is strong and intelligent, strength and intelligence are what they will likely find.
Although we are all on this path of realization and expansion together, each of us is unique in our lessons to be learned; the way you do something might be totally different than how someone else needs to process a situation. Rest assured that Spirit is at work in all of our lives, and give yourself a rest from overseeing your partner's personal business.
7. Keeping up your personal grow work means you will keep your mind sharp and your awareness keen. Read, study, and attend lectures; don't rest on the laurels of what you think you already know. The moment we think we have it all figured out is the moment things will come crashing down around us. Arrogance leaves no room for intimacy or growth, and is certainly not part of a spiritual curriculum. When you immerse yourself in learning, you will always have new skills and interests to apply to a relationship, and thus the relationship will always feel fresh and relevant
8. Following the path of your own creativity keeps you attuned to that which moves and inspires you. As you indulge your creative side, you become less dependent on your partner to feel whole. Creative energy is the force that breaks new ground. To sustain love, we need to continually fuel whatever inspires us on the deepest level. Also, creativity balances out the egoist and intellectual side of life; it teaches us to play and have fun. When we engage our passions, we radiate passionate energy and thus maintain the interest of our partner as well as having your own sense of fulfillment.
9. Staying present keeps us in the moment which is where life is. Life does not exist in future predictions or past grievances; all we have for sure is right here and right now. Every moment teaches us something, and if we are busily trying to change or control something we miss the grace intended for us.
By allowing the sacred mystery to unfold without trying to tamper with it, we can move through anything with much more ease and simplicity. As we cease resisting, any so-called negative situation or emotion will have the space to work out. And by the same token, when we are completely alert and aware in any given moment, we are open to the subtle miracles happening all around us. By staying present, we will see our partner for who they are; we will hear clearly their communication and respond to it astutely
10. Being grateful for what you have zeros in on what is working, which in turn magnetizes more of the same. Where you put your focus is where you direct your creative intention; so if you want abundance, be grateful for the vitality you have now. If you want a soulful relationship, be grateful for the soulful moments. Gratitude is like a seed you plant; it grows more as it is watered and nourished. Show your partner what you appreciate in them and let them know that they have a positive effect in your life. The acknowledgements of good will call forth more of the same.
COACHING QUESTION:
Are you committed or are you just trying?
Be mindful on purpose
Live Consciously,
The past has NO power and the future has NO presence
6/29/2008
Summer Packing Fashion Tips

How will you prepare for your upcoming summer events?
Most of my clients have upcoming class reunions, family picnics, Las Vegas vacation trips, birthday parties, concerts, and lazy days at the beach. And currently, I am helping them plan their morning, day, and evening outfits, while commonly focusing around versatility -- wearing the same piece three to four different ways. While each of these outings are unique in their own right, I want each person to always feel comfortable and conscious of their environment.
A few questions I encourage them to ask themselves: Will I choose a new trend I've never worn for my class reunion to make a statement? Should I go for a summer dress at my family picnic with kids all around and footballs probably thrown my way? And just how MANY shoes should I bring on a trip to Vegas?
I hope that as you plan for your summertime fun, you put some time and effort into how you present yourself. If you think comfort, chic, and confident -- you can never go wrong.
Contact me if you're interested in scheduling a one-on-one phone, in-person, or online consultation! It is FREE for the first 15 minutes. I look forward to sharing with you tips on affordable trends to consider, the retail outlets that have the best sales, and how you can put together new outfits with what you already have.
Contact Elana Pruitt at elana@talkingchic.com or (909) 997-3216 to schedule your consultation today.
Photo Credit: http://www.cyclelicio.us
Keep Your Cool
A helpful hint is to place one of these silica gel packages in your jewelry box. You can find these tiny packages of silica gel inserted in food items to keep them dry.
They work great for jewelry too!

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SUCCESS

“It takes courage to demand time for yourself. At first glance, it may seem to be the ultimate in selfishness, a real slap in the face to those who love and depend on you. IT IS NOT! It means you care enough to want to see the best in yourself and give only the best to others.” ~ Shale Paul
Successful people,maintain a positive focus in life no matter what is going on around them. They stay focused on their past successes rather than their past failures, and on the next action steps they need to take to get them closer to the fulfillment of their goals rather than all the other distractions that life presents to them. They are constantly proactive in the pursuit of their chosen objectives.
Donna Cardillo once said, "It's easy to be negative and unmotivated, but it takes some work to be positive and motivated. While there's no off button for those relentless "tapes," there are things that you can do to turn down the volume and shift your focus from the negative to the positive."
Be mindful on purpose
Live Consciously,
The past has NO power and the future has NO presence
Working Girl's Survival Kit

A Ms. & Mrs. original, the Working Girl's Survival Kit is a convenient collection of emergency essentials for female professionals. Inside this chic, reusable train case are 22 beauty, grooming, and healthcare products to help women survive a typical—or not so typical—day at the office. From career-bound college grads to seasoned executives, the Working Girl's Survival Kit is a stylish and functional gift that will always fit.
Contents: Toothbrush, Toothpaste, Dental Floss, Mints, Pain Reliever, Emery Board, Clear Nail Polish, Nail Polish Remover, Nail Clipper, Hand Lotion, Facial Tissues, Deodorant, Tampons, Adhesive Bandages, Folding Hair Brush, Interior Mirror, Lint Remover, Mending Kit, Shoe Shine Wipes, Stain Remover, Static Guard®, and Lip Balm. The ms. & mrs. logo tag doubles as a nail clipper.
Purchase at MyChicThings.com.
6/28/2008
Enchanted Evening
A striking Black Onyx & Carnelian Beaded Necklace. This stunning necklace will look sensational with a black dress!
Black Onyx & Carnelian
18" Long (adjustable up to 19-1/2” with attached extender) plus 2” drop
$46.95
6/26/2008
Did You know...

Many times, I have been asked if my jewelry line is “pure silver.” Often the answer the customer receives, all be it true, seems to turn them off. My line is not pure silver.
Quality silver jewelry is not pure silver. Silver in its pure state is too soft to be used for jewelry and really has no practical use in the jewelry industry. To increase the hardness of silver, other metals are mixed with silver while in a liquid state to form an alloy. The ratio of silver to other metals is what’s important. Sterling silver is a 92.5% silver and 7.5% copper. Many metals can be mixed with silver so buyers beware! Some lesser quality pieces can even be a combination of silver and lead.
Sterling can be identified by a stamp somewhere on the piece. Often the “Sterling” or “.925” stamp can be found on the bail of a pendant, the shank of a ring or the clasp of a chain or necklace. This stamp insures you that the piece is 92.5% silver and 7.5% other metal.
The question is what other metal? This is where a trusted supplier is important. Don’t be afraid to ask which metals are used in the piece you are considering. Also, be careful with silver plated jewelry. Silver plating is a process of covering an inexpensive base metal with a thin layer of silver. In time, this layer will wear off and your beautiful piece will loose it luster. The chemistry of silver can be confusing so here is a little chart to make things a little simpler.
· Coin Silver. an alloy of 90% silver and 10% copper.
· Sterling Silver. an allow that contains at least 92.5% silver and 7.5% other metals usually copper.
· Mexican Silver. an allow of 95% silver and 5% other metal(s) -- usually copper.
· Fine Silver. Fine silver is 99% silver. This level of purity is usually too soft to be used in most applications.
In short, know what you are paying for and be happy with your purchase.
Lady Lynn
[pure silver, sterling silver]
6/24/2008
The Spirit Of Giving

Barbara Curran owner of Finders Keepers is an extraordinary woman who exemplifies the true spirit of giving. Barbara is the founder of “Shop for a Cure” This wonderful organization was founded to raise money for the Jimmy V Foundation.
I asked Barbara how she became involved in the Jimmy V Foundation.
She told me that she knew of The V Foundation and had volunteered in the past for other cancer related organizations. “My Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer 4 years ago at the age of 78. I've lost an aunt and cousin to breast cancer and two other cousins to different types of cancer, all very young. After visiting http://www.jimmyv.org/, I read about all the grassroots events throughout the country and contacted them to see if I could organize a fund-raiser with a shopping theme. They were very receptive to the idea.”
I asked her to describe what when into planning an event like “Shop for a Cure”.
“After securing the location and date, I contacted approximately 500 businesses to solicit vendors and sponsors (thank goodness for email)! I didn't think I would have trouble finding vendors, but I thought sponsors might be a little more difficult given the unsettled economy. I was wrong. We had loads of gift certificates, gift baskets and product donations. I then contacted media outlets including radio, television, print and online, some required a second submission closer to the event. One required a press release be written”.
What was the most rewarding portion of “Shop for a Cure” for you?
“Several wonderful relationships were formed as a result of the event. I had been planning it for months and met a lot of people I otherwise would never have met. I'm so grateful to everyone who participated...vendors, sponsors, customers, volunteers and to our hosts at KB Home Wynbrooke, Karen Pearson and Kris Cuddy”.
What advice would you give someone else who wanted to become involved in helping others in this way? “Once you have the date and location, make it a priority to secure a media sponsor”.
What other charitable organizations do you work with?
“Duke Children's Hospital. I have been donating to their Teddy Bear Ball auction for years. I recently participated in their 35th Annual Celebrity Golf Classic hosted by Jeff Foxworthy. It was an amazing event, so inspirational and touching. Sadly, it was the last year they are having the event, but I was so inspired that I contacted them the next day to volunteer to help with this year's Teddy Bear Ball”.
Have you made plans to host future events?
“I'm organizing a similar event for The V Foundation, but on a smaller scale, at The Cotton Company in Wake Forest (where my retail boutique is located). In-house vendors who wish to participate will donate 10% of their sales to The V Foundation over a weekend in August”.
Barbara will be continuing to host other charitable events in the future. She is planning on continuing to work with the Duke Children's Hospital and The V Foundation.
What touched me the most about this fabulous caring woman is her ability to look beyond herself and reach out to help others in need. Just image if each of you, who read this article, take a step out of your box and touch someone in need. Perhaps you do not have the time or ability to organize an event as Barbara did. But each of us has the ability to help in some small way in local or national events or even right around your corner. I challenge each of you to take the next step in caring.
6/20/2008
Summer Panache
Today is officially the first day of summer and what better way to celebrate the season than with our own personal style. 2008’s jewelry trends are all about chunky rings, show-stopper pendants, large bold bracelets and stacked bangles.
When selecting the perfect piece to adorn you summer outfit, consider geometric shapes, or motifs such as animals or ethnic designs. Shell jewelry is always fun to wear in the summer.
Think of the deep lush colors in a rainforest ranging from soft sage, golden yellows to bright vibrant green. Add a touch of the neutral shades of brown, black or navy and accent these with purple, pink, yellow & orange red. Look for natural stones that highlight these colors.
Stones such as Unakite, Peridot, Abalone, Tourmaline, Serpentine, Stitchtite, and Rhyolite make a bold statement and compliment today’s summer fashions. As the summer season begins concentrate on fresh and flirty bold jewelry designs that compliment your unique style.
Come visit us at Lady Lynn's Boutique

[fashion][jewelry][summer style]
6/19/2008
LESSONS IN LIFE

"Nobody's journey is seamless or smooth, we all stumble,and we all have setbacks. If things go wrong, you hit a dead end as you will...it's just life's way of saying time to change course. Every failure, every crisis, every difficult time...ASK YOURSELF...
What is this here to teach me?
And as soon as you get the lesson you get to move on
...if you don't get the lesson it shows up again wearing a different disguise and give you more work, until you get it.
What I found is that difficulties come when you don't pay attention to life whisper
...then comes a scream..."Whatever you resists...persists."
If you ask the life questions, NOT...why is this happening to me? BUT...What is this here to teach me?
Live for the present moment whatever happens to you in the past...the past has no power. Life is now!
Oprah said "One thing I know for sure,In order to be truly happy - you must live along with and you have stand for something larger than yourself, because life is a reciprocated exchange...to move forward yo have give back."
Be open to lessons...walk through life eager and be open to self improvement that which is best to help you evolve.
BECOME MORE OF YOURSELF!
Live Consciously!
Christine Spencer, Certified Life /Success Coach
http://christine-livepassionately.blogspot.com/
6/18/2008
Lavender & Mint Soap

Vegan
Wonderful combination of perennial essential oil favorites – lavender and mint. Shea and cocoa butters with sweet almond oil, enhance this bath bar to make a fresh and exhilarating bathing experience. Plant this one in your tub!
$5.50 each at MyChicThings.com.
6/16/2008
A Personal Shopper for Your Everyday Fashion Frustrations
6/11/2008
Zebra Print Tote
These popular totes are back! Heavy canvas with outside zipper pocket. Velcro and zipper closure with small zipper pocket inside. Small coin purse included. Fully lined. Heavy duty 1 " handles. Black and white zebra print. 12"W x 13"L$7.50 at MyChicThings.com.

[zebra][totes]
6/10/2008
Rejuvenate With Green Tea & Honey

Chocolate Silk For The Body

6/09/2008
You Know You're A Gossip Queen
You know this shirt fits you to a "tee"! Display the Gossip Queen in you proudly with this fantastic shirt my Twinkling Tees.Custom made, this exclusive design is only available at My Chic Things. Made with American Apparel Brand shirts, they run small and are meant to fit snuggly. If in doubt, order a size larger
Black short sleeved shirt with clear crystals. Size S (0-2) chest 30-32, M (4-6) chest 32-24, L (8-10) chest 36-38, XL (12-14) chest 40-42.
Allow 2-3 delivery because each shirt is custom made. One size L (8-10) available for immediate shipping.
$37.50 each at MyChicThings.com.

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